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Donna Wies's avatar

Thank you. I just read a horrible essay blaming the Reiners’ parenting for their son’s addiction, and by extrapolation, their own deaths. I was a parent who tried everything to “save” my son until I realized I was powerlessness over any other adult’s behavior, even one I loved desperately.

Kristine Lassen's avatar

I am so sorry for your loss, Donna. Thank you for sharing your story. I look forward to reading your essays.

Amy K's avatar

I had to give myself a few days before I felt strong enough to read this.

You’re right- this is the truth. Thank you for speaking the truth with love. ❤️

Kristine Lassen's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

Esme Rose Marsh's avatar

The “this is for you” got me! 🥺 a much needed piece for anyone struggling period, but particularly during this season of supposed happy families!

Kristine Lassen's avatar

Thank you, Esme. This time of year can be so challenging for many.

Heidi J Kellam's avatar

Thank you for writing this. Everyone needs this reminder sometimes-about the terror that is addiction despite outer circumstance. Perhaps not those that have lived it. They know. But perhaps being reminded that they are not to blame is good too ❤️

Kristine Lassen's avatar

I hope the reminder helps. Thank you for your kind words.

Jane Terry's avatar

❤️. Nail on the head- again

Kristine Lassen's avatar

Thank you, Jane ❤️